I'm sick and tired of reading articles stating,
"I love my husband more than my kids"
I call bullshit.
I'm sorry (not sorry), but I just don't see it the same way.
I love my kids so much that I worry about them in my sleep...
IN MY SLEEP!
They are part of me, mind, body and soul. There's absolutely no comparison between this and the way I love my husband.
Don't get me wrong I love my husband, I mean I REALLY LOVE him. He's a pain in my ass half the time, but he's loved me through some really tough times, he's supported me, he's my comfort, and laughter (sometimes), we have shared so many incredible experiences and we have a bond now that I just couldn't do without.
The two LOVES cannot be compared! How can one compare the intense, basic and instinctual kind of love shared with your child, with the passionate, comforting and romantic kind of love shared with your partner?
If someone forced me to make a choice between my husband and my children, I would without hesitation choose my children... And I would expect my husband's answer to be the same. In fact, I would almost be upset if he had it the other way around. I remember being (obviously hormonal) pregnant saying to my husband "Whatever happens during labour and birth, DO NOT LEAVE THAT BABY". I knew it then, I know it now.
But what do I know, I'm just a humble mummy-blogger. Maybe my husband's getting the raw end of the stick here, but it is what it is... you know?
Behind the blog...
‘The Mummysomniac’ is a lifestyle, motherhood and most recently, pregnancy blog, founded in 2015 by Kirsty McKenzie. She’s a mum of three, blogging about the highs and lows of motherhood, with a straight forward and honest approach, as well as a little bit of humour. Kirsty is passionate about sharing the realities of #MumLife, not the cookie cutter, high gloss version